A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. John 13:34-35  

  YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE  
 

You can make a difference in the lives of others -- in your family, school, church, community, and world! The world needs you -- your ideas, your compassion, and your spiritual outlook. And, it’s never too late to start contributing. The best gifts are those from the heart.

The Christmas season is full of blessings. Though we celebrate the birth of Jesus, it is really his life, his sacrifice that proved life is eternal, which gives us hope (the hot topic) and is the true blessing of the Christmas season. So, this Christmas, let’s focus on the blessings that surround us.

Taylor Gibbs, a 15-year-old from MO, shares why finding the blessings is important. 

Finding the blessings is one of the biggest subjects from BibleWise that has struck me, along with this statement from Proverbs:

 
     
 
  A faithful man shall abound with blessings…. (28:20).  
 
     
 

To me this means:

  • we need to find the little blessings or little things;
  • the little things add up to big things.

My football coach often told us to rejoice over the small victories. Through the year, I started to see why this is so important. 

  • If all we do is look for the big blessings, then we may be ignorant of the smaller blessings.
  • But if we search for the smaller details, blessings, or victories, then we will see these blessings and observe them in action.
  • Then, we can build on the small victories.
  • Even when something goes wrong, like 9/11 or the hurricane in New Orleans, there are blessings to be found. In fact, right when such negative activity occurs is when we need to look for, acknowledge, and open up to the blessings.
  • This helps us bless others.
  • If we’re too stubborn to do anything to help others, then our vision is blinded, and we miss the blessings.
 
  -- Taylor Gibbs  
 
 
 

Let’s refuse to be stubborn. Let’s not be blind to the good that abounds. Let’s do as Taylor says and notice the blessings, for when we do, we find that they all add up to a big blessing: they help us be more kind and thoughtful. We then experience the joy that comes from blessing others and from being blessed by God.

When we imbibe the true Christmas spirit, we can’t help but bless everyone around us. So, whatever we’re doing this month and this Christmas, let’s find the blessings:   

  • If we’ve been waiting in line for what seems like hours, we can appreciate the people around us.
  • If we’re stuck in a traffic jam, let’s be grateful we have time to think or pray or listen to our favorite radio stations or CDs.
  • If our parents want us back home earlier than we’d like, we can be thankful they care about us.
  • If a mom has a crying baby beside her, wave and smile at the baby.
  • If our sibling took exactly what we wanted, we can be glad she has it.
  • If we failed a test, let’s see what we can learn.
  • If arguments are surrounding us, find ways to make peace.
  • If the roast that was put in the oven for Christmas dinner shriveled up because the oven was broken and got too hot, we can laugh and rejoice that we’re with our family, that at least we had left-over spaghetti in the frig, and that we’ll forever talk about that one Christmas dinner.

This Christmas, let’s be grateful for the little things so we can celebrate the biggest blessing of all -- the blessing of the Christ. 

 
  —MFE  
 
 

 

 
 
     
 

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We wiill post as many of your experiences and ideas as possible each month.

 
 
 

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Make a Difference Topics

 
  Make November Kindness Month  
 

Help those affected by the Hurricanes

 
  September’s School Survival Guide  
  Like Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi, let’s write our own Recipes for Life and follow them.  
  Read Bible magazines, and gain spiritual insight on dating, individuality, community, music, and more.  
  We can have
the courage to stand up for
right even if we’re scared;
do what’s right even if it’s not cool; see people for who they are.
 
  Pay attention to Joel and Amos; trust God amidst destruction; be humble; change lives  
  Support tsunami relief and pray  
  Be a leader
like Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach,
Abed-nego
 
  Take care of our Earth. Make the best choices.  
  Live the Golden Rule daily by loving others  
  Express Christmas love -- love yourself
and others
 
  Write thank you letters  
  Strive for wisdom; start "wisdom circles."  
  Pray for the world; write and share a psalm  
  Stand up for yourself, as Job did; be a good friend.  
  Be an active volunteer in your community  
  Be like Jabez-pray big, and expect your prayers to be answered.  
  Be a prophet like Elijah and Elisha; stand up for God  
  Modern Day Psalms  
  Like Samuel and Nathan, you can serve God and help others do right.  
  Like David, you can defeat "Goliaths."  
  Like Ruth, you can build a new life with God.  
  Put the "Christ" into Christmas and everyday. Help de-stress your parents.  
  Like Gideon, you can help free others. Share your gratitude.  
  Like Joshua, you can be a principled leader  
  Like Moses, you can defeat terrorism  
  Like Moses, you can use the commandments daily  
  Like Moses, you can free yourselves and others  
  Like Joseph, you can make the best of tough situations  
  Like Jacob, you can forgive and ask forgiveness  
  Like Jesus, you can serve others with humility
 
  Like Isaac and Rebekah,you can strengthen all relationships
 
  Like Abraham, you can be a peacemaker, friend, and healer
 
  Simple things you can do to help make a difference in others' lives  
 
 
     
   
     
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